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Please help me – this has been an ongoing problem since I was 16 and I am finding each day a struggle. Nor does lesbian porn – only straight porn works. That said, I have watched gay porn and it doesn’t turn me on.
I am concerned I might be gay, though: I sometimes find I’m thinking about men, and looking at them when I’m out and about. I have had sex with women and I enjoy it, but generally I don’t find myself massively aroused.
I am a 22-year-old male and I’m very confused about my sexuality.
